My name is Stryder.
Over 3 years ago some very loving folks rescued me from my old life and brought me to live with my beloved human.
Annie is a writer and even though she walks on 2 legs and I walk on four, we have a lot in common.
I Know What It’s Like To Face Fear
I have two fairy Dog-mothers, Vikki and Diane. The second day of my new life, Vikki stopped by and she and my beloved Annie took me to the vets. They watched me freeze in fear right at the door. I sat down and that was it.
Yep. 90 lbs. of terrified dog is totally immovable. They ended up sliding me across the floor. A lot of people gently helped.
Have you ever been so afraid of something that you froze?
Everyone in the vets office was so nice to me. No one yelled at me or hit me or called me stupid.
It has taken me a long time to get used to all my new situations. I was even afraid to walk down the street on a leash.
Are your human friends like that?
Not on a leash, of course, but are there times when you don’t know what is going on inside of them? They act all weird. Maybe they are afraid.
Just because I’m big doesn’t mean I don’t get afraid. I might not look scared but sometimes I am.
The kindness of others has helped me a lot.
Stand By Your Loved One
Last night Annie was worried about something and she couldn’t sleep. Finally she got up and went out into the dining room. I looked like I was asleep but I really wasn’t. I got up and followed her.
Sometimes I get a treat by doing this.
But mostly I wanted Annie to know that I was there. This can mean a lot, just knowing someone else is beside you. Even if they don’t say anything. Just being there.
I don’t usually give dog kisses or anything like that. I’m not real big on the “cutey” stuff….
But I am there. Always.
And folks, this goes both ways. When we go somewhere and I’m all “Mr. Cool Dog” and everyone says how handsome I am, I sometimes act like I don’t need anyone.
But if I get scared, guess who I want to be with? That’s right.
I Confess, I Have To Practice Being Patient
You know, little dogs like to come up to me and they dance all around my feet. They are like giant fleas. Sometimes they play nip.
They like to act like us big dogs, you know? So I am learning to be patient. I don’t nip or snarl at them. I don’t make them feel stupid and little, even though I could.
I just stand there and practice being patient.
If they are too obnoxious I nudge Annie in our secret language way.
She knows that I am saying, “Can we go now?”
And of course we do.
Annie has learned to speak dog. She hasn’t always known how but now she does pretty well.
Life hasn’t always been easy for me and when I was “rescued” I didn’t know what to expect. But you know, my life is good.
I love my home.
We do cool stuff.
I get to be in Annie’s books.
I like it when we play music too.
And I have soft beds to lie on.
What I like best is that I am safe and loved. I am a happy pup!
Hi Stryder & Annie, This blog is awesome. I absolutely loved the video and Stryder, I’m sure Annie will let you continue the blog. You’re already a superstar!!!
Hugs, Joni
Thank you kindly, Jody! Stryder and I are so glad you enjoyed this blog. Stryder has been hearing positive responses from his friends and so yes, he will be blogging more. We are both looking forward to that!
Amazing wisdom from Stryder. Healing words and emotions for everyone
Thank you so much for your comments. Yes, he is a wise one. He knows the depths of fear and rejection. His life is a testimony to how love and caring can make such a difference. Thank you both for being an example of that is his life! ox
Long time since Haiku
Lately Annie in mind often
So Inspired by You❣
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BUT didn’t watch Stryder link
Saw it today — WOW❣
I love Stryder’s blog
Very cool wise talking dog
You both amaze me❣❣
I love Stryder! His perspective is so honest and heart-touching. I’m glad you found each other. <3
Thank you, Donna. The expression, “Who rescued who?” is applicable here! He is big and he was so scared when he first came. Stryder has come such a long ways and is a true sweet one. Thank you for your comments. They mean a lot to both of us!
Wow Annie…I absolutely LOVE Stryder’s post. I was so captivated by what he was sharing and didn’t want him to stop…PLEASE let him share more.
Marisa, I am so delighted that you loved his post. Writing from a dog’s point of view, especially a BIG dog with a lot of background, it an amazing place to stand. Thank you for your loving support and yes! Stryder will share more!! 😀
OH, this is so beyond precious!!! Stryder thank you for sharing your journey with Annie with the rest of us. I hope you know how much I love and care about you. I am so happy that you and Annie found each other. It was meant to be wasn’t it?
I look forward to more of your journey when you have time to share with us again.
Sending loving pats, Marmee
Stryder thanks you for all the wonderful comments! And your love. And the bones you give him. He will be continuing on with his stories in the near future!!! With lots of love to another dog lover from your favorite BIG dog!
Absolutely, Stryder! You are welcome to blog anytime as far as I am concerned, but ithat is up to you and your beloved human to decide. I will read. And be there to give you treats from time to time (we are Annie and Stryde-rite’s neighbors whose own little fur friend makes sure Stryder stays well supplied in treats for his visits.) We have seen you grow from a scared victim to a more confident survivor. Annie has been so proud of your progress, buddy, so of course I encourage you to continue blogging and continue working on your confidence. We are never 100% healed of our past but there comes a time when we can say, “the past made me who I am today and I love where and who I am.” We love you Stryder. Keep us the good work!
What a beautiful response!
You know Stryder so well and have seen him grow. Yes, our past has made us who we are today!
Your words of wisdom and truth are full of so much love. Stryder and I deeply thank you.
Wisdom and Life-lessons are always there for us; we just have to step back, look, and listen. Stryder, your words are healing and comforting. Please continue your blog! Love to you and your person.
This is Stryder’s person responding as he has not yet mastered the keyboard. Thank you so much for your wisdom and encouragement! Stryder wants you to know that he will continue with his blogging endeavors! He is excited about more.
Stryder, you are a lucky form of intelligent life on this beautiful planet. Please continue to take care of Annie. Its time now to brush more often to shed the winter coat and to drink more fresh water from your bowl. Go on extended walks. I hope you avoid writers block this spring, something I have to work through. I hope to have a dark chocolate coffee soon in maybe Palm Springs. Regards, Win.
Win, Stryder appreciates all your wisdom! Thank you 😀
Listening to Stryder was like sitting at the Guru’s knee…such wisdom and deep kindness. I hope that Stryder becomes a regular on your blog Annie.
Thank you so much, Donna. We had a great time putting this together; our 4 leggeds are so wise!
This is amazing!
Good info. Lucky me I recently found your website by chance (stumbleupon).
I have book marked it for later!
I love Styder’s wisdom. Thank you for sharing it in your newsletter. 🙏✍️💖
You are a wise and lucky dog, Stryder. We would love to hear more from you!
That’s a completely different approach. Loved it. Thanks for sharing Stryder’s voice with us.